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Email 1: Take This Infidelity Quiz And Find Out If Your Partner Is Cheating
Hi there,
Have you been seeing some signs lately?
Notice a change in your partner’s behavior?
If you are questioning whether or not your partner may be cheating on you, then here is an infidelity quiz that you can take. Just simply answer yes or no.
1. Does your partner or spouse get phone calls at all hours of the night and day?
2. Does your partner or spouse take their cell phone with them when they go to the restroom?
3. Does your partner or spouse have an extra change of clothes in their vehicle, with no explanation as to why they have them in there?
4. Does your partner or spouse disappear and not have a valid excuse for their whereabouts?
5. Does your partner or spouse seem to be working and traveling a lot for work lately when you know it is unnecessary?
6. Do you notice large withdrawals from your partner or spouse’s bank account with no explanation for it?
7. Do you see weird credit card transactions on your statement that your partner or spouse cannot explain?
8. Does your partner or spouse quickly minimize the screen on the computer when you enter the room?
9. Does your partner or spouse start fights with you and then leave the house?
10. Does your partner or spouse get defensive when you ask to see their phone?
Honestly, if you answered yes to one of these questions, then there is a high likelihood that your partner or spouse is cheating on you. Let me explain further by breaking down each question.
1. If your partner or spouse is getting calls all day and night with no explanation as to who is calling, then you may have a cheater.
2. Unless your partner or spouse likes to play games on their phone while using the potty, then I would think that they are trying to hide something from you.
3. If your partner or spouse can’t explain the extra clothes with an excuse like “I am going to the gym,” then you may have a cheater.
4. Not being able to explain or forgetting where they went is a classic sign of a cheater.
5. If your partner or spouse works in the mall and all of a sudden says they have to stay late or travel for work, then you already know what I am going to say.
6. Your partner or spouse should be able to explain the withdrawals, if not then they may be spending it on presents and dinner for someone else.
7. If you see a charge for a hotel room or a jewelry shop and you do not have a birthday coming up, then you need to confront your partner or spouse.
8. This is a classic sign of chat room cheating. Check the history on your computer before it is too
late.
9. Your partner or spouse is doing this so they have a reason to leave and see the other person.
10. If your partner or spouse has nothing to hide, then handing over the phone should be no problem. If there is something to hide then you will sense the hesitation.
While these are not foolproof, they are pretty accurate.
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Email 2: Why People Cheat In Relationships?
When you are the one getting cheated on in a relationship, it is often hard to understand why cheating happens.
Often, people will blame themselves and think – “Maybe I could have done a few things differently.”
The sad fact is that no matter what you would have done differently, the cheating would probably have happened anyway. Cheating partners are often on the lookout for an excuse to cheat, so that when they are eventually busted they can use that excuse as their reason.
To help you better understand what I am talking about, I will give you some example of why people cheat in relationships.
Some people cheat in relationships because they think that the grass is always greener on the other side. I know that this is a cliché, but it is often one of the reasons why people cheat.
They feel like their needs are not getting fulfilled at home, so they go out seeking it elsewhere, only to find that their new lover has a whole other set of problems.
Another reason people cheat in relationships is because of the excitement and exhilaration of cheating. Some people feel like sex at home with their partner is the same old same old.
They often feel like there is something missing. They often feel like the excitement and passion has passed, and instead of rekindling it they go out looking for it somewhere else.
The excitement of meeting a stranger and sleeping with them gets them so consumed and revved up that they do it without thinking twice. Often this feeling is short lived once the encounter is over, so they go out seeking it again and again.
One more sad reason why people cheat in relationships is because they feel as if things will not get any better.
They feel as if things will not change and instead of talking things over to see what can get worked on, they opt for the easy way out and start seeking comfort in the arms of another person.
While this is a very short list of reasons, they do not make cheating in a relationship okay.
They are just ways and excuses that a cheating partner will use in order to feel better and justify it to you.
The one thing that you need to keep in mind is whether or not your partner cheats on you; it is not your fault.
No matter where the blame and bull flies, it is not your fault and there is likely little that you could have done to have prevented it.
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Email 3: Common Excuses For Cheating
Hi there,
I was talking to a friend recently whose husband had cheated on her. Through her tears and frustration, she said something that stung me.
She said that when she found out, her husband turned things around and blamed her.
Yup, you read that correctly. After he had cheated, he had actually blamed her for something that he had done. Which is what brings me to today’s message. I wanted to write, encourage and empower you today.
I wanted to remind you that cheating is never the victim’s fault. It’s just a way for a cheater to feel better about things.
So here are a few common excuses that you may hear and what the truth behind it really is.
“The way you have treated me lately is the reason I cheated on you.”
Translation: We have been fighting lately and instead of talking to you about it, I took the easy way out and fooled around on you. Now I feel really guilty and can’t stand it so I am taking the easy way out again and blaming you.
“I did it because I thought you were cheating on me.”
Translation: I saw a phone number on your cell phone that I did not recognize, so I started to assume things. Instead of asking you about it, my jealousy and frustration got the best of me. I jumped to a conclusion and slept with someone to hurt you, before you hurt me.
“You don’t love me like you used to.”
Translation: I don’t love you like I used to. We have been so busy with our lives that we have neglected nurturing our relationship. Instead of working on things, I sought out comfort from someone else instead.
These three common excuses are just that – excuses. There is never an excuse good enough to justify cheating on the one you love. I know of no other pain worse than hearing that the person you love, was in bed with someone else.
It is not your fault. No matter what is said or done, you do not control the actions of someone else.
Your partner has the ability to think and make decisions, and that is something that you need to keep in mind.
As I sat with my friend, she kept saying how she should have done this or she should have done that differently.
She said maybe she should have gone to that football game with him that one time, or maybe she should have shut her mouth during that one argument.
As I sat listening with a heavy heart, I kept wishing that I could have helped her before, and while this was going on. I wished that there was something I could have done.
Which is what brings me back to you and what I can do to help.
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Email 4: Emotional Infidelity- Signs and Symptoms
Hi there,
I hope that this message finds you well. Today I wanted to talk to you about a different type of cheating. A type of cheating that may be the worst kind, if that is possible at all.
What I am talking about is emotional infidelity, or emotional cheating.
This is something that you may or not have thought about, but if you are certain that your partner may be cheating and have no physical proof, then this could be the answer you have been searching for.
First of all, let me explain what emotional cheating is and how it could actually be worse than the physical aspect of cheating. Emotional infidelity has more to do with internal feelings than physical ones.
Feelings like attraction and infatuation, as opposed to the physically good feelings that people experience through sex.
Often an emotional affair is harder to break free of than a purely physical one, which is why it needs to be ended as soon as possible to avoid devastating effects on a relationship.
One clear cut sign that your partner may be cheating on you emotionally, is a lack of caring on your partner’s behalf. This lack can be seen both emotionally and physically.
For example, you may notice that your partner pays no attention to you when you are pouring out your feelings. You may even feel as if their thoughts are somewhere else completely.
This lack of care will become quite evident to you. This will tell you that your partner has someone else on their mind.
Another sign to look out for is a lack of physical contact.
If your partner is avoiding any type of physical action in the bedroom and fending off your advancements, then you can be pretty certain that something is going on.
This act of pushing you away speaks to a few things. For one thing your partner probably feels guilty for emotionally cheating on you, and for that reason alone does not want to get intimate.
Another thing that this shows is that your partner has someone else on their mind other than you. If you were on their mind, then there would be no reason to push you away.
Another big giveaway that your partner may be cheating on you emotionally is the lack of time that you are spending together as a couple. If you find that your partner is spending less time with you and more time on their computer or phone, then you really need to sit down and find out what is going on.
There are other signs and symptoms you can look for in your partner, and I am sure that you have probably seen some already. The best advice I can give you is to go with your gut instinct and find out the truth.
You know your partner better than anyone else. What you are feeling and seeing is not something you can take for granted. If you think that something is going on and need a way to find out for sure, then I can help.
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Email 5: Why Partners Are Attracted To Your Best friends?
Dear Friend,
Best friends are the people we have the strongest connection and bond with.
Best friends are the people we share things with that we would not share with others.
In some cases, the conversations and thoughts shared between best friends would not be shared with partners.
Best friends often finish each other’s sentences and are very alike in many ways. That is most likely the reason that people become best friends. They often have the same likes, dislikes and habits.
And it is for these reasons that many people become attracted to their partner’s best friend.
People often only see the good side of their partner’s best friend, while they see all sides of their partner. This naturally causes them to become attracted to their partner’s best friend. In some ways, they become the perfect person.
I know that sounds crazy, but for many that is exactly what is happening.
They see all of the good, with none of the bad. Think about that for a minute, if you experienced all of the good parts of your partner with none of the bad, then they would essentially become the perfect person.
Imagine your partner looking like a million bucks all the time, without every arguing with you.
Life would be pretty perfect, don’t you think?
And that is the reason why your partner is probably attracted to your best friend. They see all of the good, with none of the bad.
Does that make it alright?
Heck no. It does not make it okay – ever.
The one thing that you need to keep an eye out for in these kinds of situations is two things. You need to watch the way your partner is acting around your best friend, while also keeping track of the way that your best friend is acting.
If you notice any weirdness between them, which they cannot account for, then you need to be keenly aware of it. You need to really keep track of the situation and make sure that you are not encouraging something that could devastate your relationship.
One of the things to watch for is your partner asking and wanting to spend more time with your best friend.
Another thing to watch out for is your best friend offering to come by the house and do things for you and your partner when you are not home, but when your partner is.
These are little things that seem innocent on the outside, but can lead to bigger problems later on down the road. Keeping track of them and keeping them in check will help ensure that you do not encourage an affair to occur.
If you feel like there are already some feelings being passed back and forth, and that something may be on the verge of happening, then you had better take care of it before it starts.
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Email 6: Body Language Of A Cheating Partner
Hi there,
I wanted to tell you a quick story today. It is one that I know you will come to appreciate, because the lessons learned can be invaluable.
Back in my younger days I used to play a lot of poker.
Actually “a lot” is an understatement. In fact I got pretty good at it. I would spend my weekends playing in tournaments and home games that would help pay some bills or fund a trip.
The one thing that helped me the most was my ability to read people, more specifically, the ability to tell when people were lying about their hands. It got to the point where I wasn’t even playing based on the strength of my hand.
I was playing off of what the other person was giving me.
If I could tell that they were trying to bluff me with a garbage hand, then I would keep putting the pressure on by betting until they would eventually fold.
Care to know what I found to be the biggest signs of a liar?
I know you do. In fact, it will help you to tell if your partner is lying when you ask about that mysterious caller.
And more importantly, will tell you if your partner is cheating.
Here are some of my top calls when it comes to reading the body language of a cheating partner.
The look away
When someone is lying, they cannot look someone in the eyes. It’s as if they know that they are about to get busted. Ask your partner a direct question such as “Where have you been all night?”
If you are met with a look away and a lame excuse, then you will know whatever comes out of their mouth is a lie.
Nervousness
In poker, when a person looked nervous or started shaking, I could tell they were sitting on a monster hand. I in turn would fold my cards if they were not up to par.
In people, I have found nervousness to be a sign that they were hiding something big, in this case a lie or a cheating heart. If your partner has nothing to hide then there is no reason to get nervous.
The covered mouth
Another sign of a liar is the covered mouth. In poker games if you ever see someone cover their mouth as they speak, then you can be pretty certain they are bluffing.
In real life situations, it is something that many do without even thinking. It’s as if they are trying to hide their words as they speak because they know it is a lie. If you are ever talking to your partner and see this, then you can be pretty sure that a lie is about to follow.
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Email 7: How To Know If Your Partner Is Cheating?
Hi there,
Can I ask you a question?
Are you getting tired of all of the excuses and lies you have been hearing lately?
Tell me if this sounds familiar, you ask your partner where they have been and get this as a response:
“I was out running errands and lost track of time,” or “I had to work late again.”
If you keep hearing this over and over again and are sick and tired of it, then there are a few things you can do to see if your partner has been up to no good. This all has to do with your partner’s cell phone.
The problem though, is getting a hold of it, but I have a few ways you can get the information you need without getting caught.
The information that you need to get are calls and text messages. This will help you to see if there is any funny business that your partner has been up to. Here are two ways to get the information you need.
Method 1:
Let your cell phone battery die. While you are out and about ask your partner to use their phone because yours is dead. Make a phone call and in the process of it, be sure to look at the call history and text messages. You need to make a mental note of times of calls and text messages received and sent. I will tell you why in a bit.
Method 2:
Wait until your partner falls asleep and take their phone into another room. When you are in there be sure to write down any contacts that seem to be getting called a lot or that is calling. Also be sure to read through text messages that are sent and received.
Now that you have gotten this information you can start to dissect it to see if your partner is cheating. The first things you will want to look at are the calls that are being made and received.
- Do you notice that a certain number or contact seems to call a lot when you are not around?
- Do you notice text messages going to a certain number or contact on a regular basis?
- Do you notice any text messages that seem to be flirtatious at all?
These are the things you need to pay attention to, because if you notice a pattern of calls or messages, then that could very well be the person that your partner is fooling around with.
Being proactive and getting the information you need is exactly what will help you bust a cheater. While you may not be able to obtain the information you need through their cell phone, there are other methods you can use to bust them.
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Email 8: Is Your Partner Having An Online Affair?
Dear Friend,
The Internet can be used for many different types of communication.
You can send and receive email, you can have video conversations and you can also chat in a large virtual room with tons of others.
On the surface it sounds like a great way to keep in touch with friends and family, and also a great way to make new friends – all from the comfort of your home.
However, for tons of others it has been the cause of breakups and divorces.
The Internet makes it easy for someone to cheat on their partner. It all starts off innocently in an online chat room and leads to follow up emails.
Before you know it, your partner is spending more and more time on the computer than with you.
The online affair is perhaps one of the worst to deal with, because it affords someone the opportunity to cheat for hours on end. Someone involved in an online affair can typically find themselves on the computer chatting with their lover from the minute they get home to the minute they must leave again.
For many, this means spending almost every waking hour glued to the computer screen and waiting for their virtual lover to log in and start a conversation.
Luckily, there are ways that you can find out if your partner is having an online affair. And it all involves the computer that your partner is using.
The first thing you can do is to check the Internet history of the computer.
This will help give you clues as to where your partner is spending their time online. If you find a lot of chat room type sites or dating sites, then you should follow the links that have been visited to see if you can find your partner’s online profile.
If you find their profile, then you can see if they are saying that they are single or in a relationship. This alone will be enough information to bust that cheater.
Now, if you are not able to get any information from the computer then you can just keep an eye on your partner’s activities.
If you are finding that your partner is on the computer for hours on end, then just “popping” in on them from time to time may reveal some information that you have been looking for.
Be sure to watch the computer screen to see if you can catch a glimpse of a site or see if your partner closes the window as soon as you walk into the room.
If you notice anything suspicious then you can be fairly certain that your partner may be engaged in an online affair.
There are other ways to track down a cheater online.
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Email 9: Is Your Partner REALLY Cheating Or Are You Just Being Paranoid?
Hi there,
I am sure that this is a question that you are asking yourself constantly – Is my partner cheating or am I just being paranoid?
While, you might think that you are being paranoid, you should never disregard that gut feeling. Often, the feelings we get deep inside cannot be overlooked.
You may think that you are just being paranoid, but there are a few things you have noticed recently, right?
There are a few things that you have probably noticed and felt funny about, right? Well, you cannot just let those feelings pass you by without doing anything about it.
You can brush it off as paranoia, but what if it’s not?
What if you were right all along, could you live with the regret of knowing that you could have done something about it?
I know those are a lot of questions to rain down on you, but these are questions that you really ought to start asking yourself.
You can start with what you already have observed and know. Think about the things you have noticed going on and ask yourself the tough questions.
Are these legitimate concerns or am I just acting crazy about it?
For instance, if your partner is leaving at all hours of the night to “run errands,” then this is truly a legitimate concern. This is not something that normally happens in relationships, so you can feel pretty confident that you are not being paranoid.
On the flip side of things, if your partner gets one phone call and says it is a wrong number, then you may be acting paranoid.
Now, if it turns into several phone calls where your partner is on the phone longer and longer and walks out of the room with the phone on a few occasions, then you have something you need to worry about.
It is always better to be safe than sorry when it comes to relationships. It is far better for you to ask your partner if something is going on and be wrong, instead of letting things slide by and finding out the hard way later on down the road.
Asking yourself about your concerns will help you to decide if you are acting on paranoia or on legitimate worries that could potentially ruin your relationship.
If you are feeling a bit worried about your partner’s actions, then there are other ways you can find out the information you need without asking directly. You can check on things like the call history on your partner’s cell phone, to checking their coat pockets for clues.
While these may not be as direct as asking, they do save you some embarrassment and arguing if you end up being wrong all together.
However, you need to go with your gut if you feel like something is going on.
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Email 10: Infidelity and Finance
Hi there,
The one thing that always amuses me about cheaters is that they almost always slip up.
They are so worried about checking to see if they are being watched, and checking to make sure no one is following them on their rendezvous that they forget about the little things.
And the little things are exactly what get them caught.
Little things like an ATM receipt here and a little credit card charge there, ultimately leads to their downfall.
If you really want to catch a cheater quickly, then you need not look any further than the bills and statements sitting on the kitchen counter.
I know you are probably wondering what I am talking about, so allow me to explain.
If you look through your partner’s bank statement, then you may catch a glimpse of some unusual transactions.
If you notice that there is a withdrawal at an ATM all the way across town, at a time that they said they would be at work, then you have exactly the kind of information you need to bust them. Also, note the amounts as well.
A cheater tries to be slick by paying for things in cash, but they never realize that their withdrawal locations and amounts are quickly being noted on their bank statement. If you notice withdrawals at weird locations then you can ask them more about it.
If there is a reasonable explanation, then it will be explained to you. If there is none, then you already know that something is going on.
Another thing to look at is credit card statements.
Look at the charges and see if you notice anything unusual. You may see a charge for dinner at a fancy restaurant or for a room at a local motel.
If you were not with your partner at either location, then you had better start asking some questions and finding out what the deal is.
Looking through receipts from purchases your partner has made will also give some very telling information.
You may see some receipts for gifts that were not given to you. If that is the case and you know that a holiday or birthday is not coming up, then let the interrogations begin.
If you have not already realized, there is a wealth of information you can gather by looking at your partner’s spending and buying habits. There are a lot of clues that can be found just by looking through receipts and statements.
And the best part of it is if you find nothing, then nothing will come from it. Your partner never has to know and you can avoid any undue arguments from starting.
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Email 11: Gadgets To Catch A Cheating Partner
Dear Friend,
Cheating partners will always lie when confronted about their cheating ways.
Often, they say things like “You are just paranoid” or “You don’t have any proof that I am doing anything wrong.”
The sad part is that is often the case. There is never really any hard evidence to nail a cheater, except for a gut feeling. This won’t fly when you are in the middle of a heated argument.
However, what will fly is when you have the evidence you need to catch a cheater. The good part is that this evidence is not that hard to obtain. And you can get this information using a few gadgets.
The first one is a key logger that you can install on your computer. There are many different programs out there and it really comes down to preference and cost. This logger is basically computer spyware that you install on your computer.
It keeps track of what is being typed and sites that are being visited.
This is crucial if you want to nail a cheater. Imagine being able to say “You were talking about sex with this other person and I have exactly what you typed.” There is really not a whole lot that a cheater can say from that point on.
You can have these key loggers send you the information remotely as well.
Imagine being able to know exactly what a cheater was up to and when they were doing it.
That is pretty powerful stuff if you ask me.
If you feel that your partner may be cheating with someone physically in your home, then you can go another route. You can set up cleverly disguised video cameras throughout your home. You can get these online or can pick them up from a spyware shop.
This is perfect if you have a strong feeling that your partner is bringing someone to the house when you are gone, and have no way to prove it.
While these are more high tech ways to catch a cheater, there is yet another inexpensive way to do so.
If you know what your partner’s chat handle is, you can go ahead and create a dummy or fake account on the site that they are visiting. If you have their instant messenger handle, then you can create one there as well.
Start exchanging messages and see if your partner says anything sexual to you or tries to make a pass at you. If you get any kind of action in this area, then be sure to print it up or save the conversation to bring forth at a later time.
While this can be risky, it can be one of the easiest ways to catch a cheater, not to mention one of the cheapest ways to do so. Regardless of what you use to catch a cheater, it is vital that you take action if you think that your partner may be cheating on you.
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Email 12: How To Confront A Cheating Partner?
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I will be the first to admit that confronting a cheating partner is not at the top of my list of things I want to do.
However, if you are ready to confront your partner, then there are a few things that you need to think about before doing so.
The first thing that you need to consider is the nature of the arguments and fights you have had with your partner in the past.
Is your partner prone to blowing up when you argue?
Do your arguments often turn into yelling matches where the police are called in to intervene?
Does your partner go off the deep end when you argue about little things like who took the trash out last?
Taking these things into consideration will help you decide on how you will confront your partner.
If your relationship is one where the both of you are level headed in tense situations, then sitting down and talking about it at home will more than likely be just fine.
However, if you feel like it can take a turn for the worst at any minute, then you may want to look into talking in a public place where you can easily leave if needed. Or in the worst case scenario – call out for help if it gets really bad.
Once you have this figured out, then you need to have your argument and evidence in order. In many cases it is easy to get off track and let your emotions get the best of you.
This is exactly why you should have some notes prepared to help keep you on track. List things down like odd behaviors and any proof you have come up with.
The last thing you need to do is think about your own reactions to things. You need to plan out how you will react if things are thrown back into your face.
You need to have a plan of action as to how you will deal with it emotionally, so that you are not caught off guard and put into a situation that you cannot handle.
When you have all of this prepared and ready, you need to make a promise to yourself that you will not fly off the handle and lose it.
If you do, then nothing will get resolved. If you blow up and lose it, then your partner will have just cause to get up and walk away from you.
Try to be as calm as possible and bring up your concerns. Ask about the things you have noticed and request an explanation for the evidence that you have found.
If your partner is not cheating, then they will be able to explain themselves. If they blow up and storm out of the room, then you will already have your answer.
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Email 13: Don’t Blame Yourself For What Happened
Hi there,
Want to know something? This is not your fault.
Yeah, I know, you probably feel like all of the stuff that has happened is entirely your fault. Well, I am here to tell you that it’s not.
The thing that you need to understand is that your partner is an adult and made a choice. I am not going to say it was the wisest choice, but it was a choice nonetheless. It is also a choice that your partner made knowing that there were other options.
The sad fact of the matter is that your partner chose instead to fore go those options, and instead look for comfort from someone else.
The reason that this is not your fault is because your partner had a ton of choices and options to choose from.
In fact I will lay just a few out, so that you come to realize that all of this is really not your fault.
The first option that your partner could have taken was to sit down and talk to you about it. The both of you could have laid out your fears and worries, and come to a solution together to deal with your relationship.
The second option could have been to talk to a professional about it to see why your partner was having thoughts of fooling around on you.
Your partner could have sought the help of a therapist to help process the feelings that were going on, and find out exactly why they were thinking of sleeping with someone else.
The third option could have been to ask for a separation, instead of going behind your back.
I could go on and on, but that would be pointless. What I am really trying to get across to you and stress, is the fact that this was not your fault.
And to top it off, your partner could have done things differently. Your partner could have taken one of many other options that would not have left you feeling the way that you currently do, but instead they made a choice.
And that is what you really need to take away from this.
Your partner made a choice that you did not affect. No matter what your partner says or does, you are the reason that they cheated.
Your partner may try and make you feel that way, but you need to know the truth. You need to know that the blame that is trying to be laid on you is just a feeble attempt to justify the hurt that has been caused.
Stop blaming yourself and start realizing that the only person to blame here is your partner.
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Email 14: How To Cope With Infidelity?
Hi there,
If you are currently going through a breakup, then there are a few key things that you need to do from here on out. There is one very important step you need to take to ensure that you have all of the emotional support available to you.
And that step is setting up your support system. One of the best ways to cope with infidelity is to have a strong support system.
This system will be there when you need to cry in the middle of the night, it will be there when you want to call your partner and it will be there for you in case you try to do something stupid like sleeping with the next person you see.
Your support system can consist of a variety of people. This all depends on who you can count on and what you can count on them for.
These may be co-workers, family members and close friends. Be sure to let them know that you will be calling on them so that they are prepared to help you through this.
You can have co-workers there to talk to when you can’t find the concentration to get your work done. You can have friends you can have dinner with when you are feeling lonely.
And you can have family members you can call on to visit when you feel the need to talk to someone about your feelings.
The key here is not to go through this alone.
When you go through a traumatic event like this alone, then there is a high likelihood that you will do something you will regret.
What are some of these things?
Well, I am glad you asked.
One of these things is calling your ex to get back together when you are not emotionally ready for it.
Another is going out drinking to help yourself feel better; all the while looking for someone to sleep with to help you deal with the pain.
And yet another is trying to cause harm to yourself to get over the cheating.
I know that you may be thinking that these are not things that you would do personally, but when someone is pushed to their breaking point, they can do some stuff that they wouldn’t normally do.
As you can see, having a strong support system will help guide you in the right direction and help ensure that you are not making any major decisions that you will come to regret in the future.
Calling on the people in your support system will help you to cope with things, and get through the cheating as best as possible.
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Email 15: Life After Infidelity
Hi there,
One thing that really annoys me is when a friend finds out that someone they knew was a victim of a cheater, and says “I knew it.”
I always come back with – “If you knew it, then why didn’t you say something?”
This is just one of the things that come with life after infidelity.
After it comes out that you have been cheated on, be prepared for other people to step forward and tell you that they knew all along.
Don’t get upset about it; take it as a way for you to know who your true friends really are. It will help you to see who is really there for you and those who are not.
Another big thing that you will have to get used to is the fact that your life as you know it, will no longer be the same. If you always went to the gym to work out with your partner, then don’t expect to do so any more.
If you had dinner at the same restaurant a few days a week together, then don’t expect your partner to be there waiting for you like things were back to normal.
Perhaps one of the hardest things to deal with after infidelity is the feeling of blame. This is something that you really need to deal with from the beginning.
Taking the blame and feeling like you were the reason for the cheating is not something you want to start doing. This can ultimately lead you to a very dark and depressing place.
You need to realize right off the bat that you had nothing to do with the cheating. Your role in all of this was the victim and nothing else. You were not the cause, the blame or the reason for the cheating that your partner did.
And no matter how your partner tries to spin it, don’t ever believe otherwise.
Now, there are several things you can start to do straight away to help you cope with the cheating.
The first is to find a good support system to help get you through this. Caring friends and family are usually the first to be called on in situations like this.
Another thing you can start to do, is to start making plans with friends and family.
Don’t leave yourself the opportunity to be left alone to make some bad decisions, like calling old friends that are always up to no good.
Life after being cheated on can be tough road to be on, but it can be made more bearable with a little help from your friends and family.
Don’t let the cheating cause you to take a downward spiral in your life. You can take control back and come out of this even stronger than before.
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Email 16: Does Your Partner Deserve A Second Chance?
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Does your partner really deserve a second chance?
The answer to this question could haunt you, if you make the wrong choice.
There are a lot of things, and I mean a lot of things, that you need to take into consideration if you are thinking of giving your partner a second chance.
The first thing you need to consider is if this was the first time that cheating occurred in your relationship. If this was, then it may be easier to give someone a second chance.
However, if there have been too many times to count, then you could be setting yourself up to get hurt again if you do give your partner another shot.
The next thing you need to consider is the relationship that your partner had with this other person. If it was just a random stranger that they met in a bar, then it may be easier to stomach than say your next door neighbor.
By taking into account the relationship that your partner had with this other person, it will help you to determine if the cheating could happen again in your relationship.
And lastly another thing to take into consideration is what exactly happened. If it was just some kissing that happened, then a second chance could be easier to dole out.
But, if more than kissing went on then it may be a bit harder to trust your partner with a second chance.
While these are things that you need to consider about your partner when you are thinking of working things out, there is a whole other side for you to think about.
And that side starts with you.
One of the first things you need to address is whether or not you are fully ready emotionally to move on.
While you may never really be over it completely, you need to consider if you are truly ready to move forward with forgiveness in this relationship.
If you are not ready, then it may not be a good idea to try and work things out just yet.
It would not be fair to your partner if you are constantly holding the cheating over their head.
Unless you are sure that you are ready to move forward, then you should not even consider giving your partner another chance.
You are really the only one that knows if your partner deserves a second chance or not. While your friends and family may try to give you some advice, you are ultimately the one that has to live with the decision.
Think about yourself, your partner and the future and really evaluate whether or not you will be able to live with this decision.
If you cannot come up with a straight answer then it will probably be best to wait.
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